Bouquet catch at Kirkstall Abbey, Leeds

By 29 Feb ’16Articles, Weddings

The Bridesmaid catches the bouquet at a traditional Jewish Wedding in Leeds

In a Leap Year traditionally the bride-to-be proposes to their fiancé.

Legend has it that St. Brigid of Kildare, a fifth-century Irish nun, asked St. Patrick, the patron saint of Ireland, to grant permission for women to propose marriage after hearing complaints from single women whose suitors were too shy to propose. Initially, he granted women permission to propose only once every seven years, but at Brigid’s insistence, he acquiesced and allowed proposals every leap day. The folk tale suggests that Brigid then dropped to a knee and proposed to Patrick that instant, but he refused, kissing her on the cheek and offering a silk gown to soften the blow. The Irish tradition therefore dictates that any man refusing a woman’s leap-day proposal must give her a silk gown.